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	<title>You&#039;ve Been Crumped &#187; Loved stuff</title>
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		<title>Loved stuff: A left brainer</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2010 21:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we think the right side of our brain focuses on the visual, and processes information in an intuitive and simultaneous way, looking first at the whole picture then the details. The focus of the left side is verbal, processing information in an analytical and sequential way, looking first at the pieces then putting them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we think the right side of our brain focuses on the visual, and processes information in an intuitive and simultaneous way, looking first at the whole picture then the details. The focus of the left side is verbal, processing information in an analytical and sequential way, looking first at the pieces then putting them together to get the whole.</p>
<p>Inspired by <a href="http://danbaxter.tumblr.com/post/942518221/creativity-test" target="_blank">Dan Baxters Blog</a> I took the same <a href="http://www.wherecreativitygoestoschool.com/vancouver/left_right/rb_test.htm" target="_blank">Art Institute of Vancouver&#8217;s creativity test</a>. It turns out that I am on the whole rather well balanced &#8211; how could this be you ask &#8211; I&#8217;m not entirely sure I would retort although I am more of a left brainer and here are my results&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.norefundculture.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Creativity-test-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-628" title="Creativity test 1" src="http://www.norefundculture.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Creativity-test-1.jpg" alt="" width="530" height="492" /></a></p>
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<p>As much as I want to be an artist and creative, it turns out I am at heart a geek and scientist :+)).
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		<title>Loved stuff: Cool wallpaper</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Sep 2010 20:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Discovered a great new restaurant in Belsize Park. Fab food and great decor. Check out this wallpaper &#8211; it&#8217;s ace.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Discovered a great new restaurant in Belsize Park. Fab food and great decor. Check out this wallpaper &#8211; it&#8217;s ace. </p>
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		<title>Loved stuff: holidays</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 17:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Currently on holiday in the mountains of Andalucia. I haven&#8217;t felt this relaxed for at least four or five years. I think this place is my spiritual home. I love it here.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Currently on holiday in the mountains of Andalucia. I haven&#8217;t felt this relaxed for at least four or five years. I think this place is my spiritual home. I love it here. </p>
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		<title>Loved stuff: Watch this and marvel at nature</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 22:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[túrána hott kurdís by hasta la otra méxico! from Till Credner on Vimeo.]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/1250929">túrána hott kurdís by hasta la otra méxico!</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user569808">Till Credner</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.
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		<title>Loved stuff: My Nike IDs</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 16:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am totally in love with my new Nike ID trainers. They are so comfy and feel like a pair of slippers. They are my perfect trainers because I designed them on an app on my iPhone a month ago. They then get made especially for you. How cool is that? Not at all expensive [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am totally in love with my new Nike ID trainers. They are so comfy and feel like a pair of slippers. They are my perfect trainers because I designed them on an app on my iPhone a month ago. They then get made especially for you. How cool is that?  Not at all expensive either. </p>
<p>Check out the website www.NIKEiD.Nike.com. </p>
<p>Love Nike even more now. </p>
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		<title>Loved stuff: Inspiring people</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 22:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the course of the last few months I have made a number of new acquaintances, friends and people that I have reconnected with that have really inspired me. Past uni folk, people that I have met up with through Twitter engagement and through work. These people are smart, kind and thoughtful. Great stuff.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the course of the last few months I have made a number of new acquaintances, friends and people that I have reconnected with that have really inspired me. Past uni folk, people that I have met up with through Twitter engagement and through work. These people are smart, kind and thoughtful. Great stuff.
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		<title>Loved stuff: I am a cliché</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 21:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know I shouldn&#8217;t love these ads but I just do&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know I shouldn&#8217;t love these ads but I just do&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Loved stuff: The new karaoke that makes you smile</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 09:58:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you watched the Eurovision Song Contest last week (like me) you may have enjoyed the excellent flash mob of Europeans (and folk from other countries close[ish] to Europe) dancing away during the interlude before the scoring started.  My friend Rhian is fascinated by the flash mob and has pronounced it “The new karaoke”. Flash [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you watched the Eurovision Song Contest last week (like me) you may have enjoyed the excellent flash mob of Europeans (and folk from other countries close[ish] to Europe) dancing away during the interlude before the scoring started.  My friend Rhian is fascinated by the flash mob and has pronounced it “The new karaoke”.  Flash mobs certainly aren&#8217;t that <em>new</em> but added to a sing along they give a karaoke a big lift.</p>
<p>There really is something mesmerising about watching a flash mob get going.  Loads of people all moving in unison, it is amazing.  There must be some genetic reason that our eyes get glued to this (matching armies make you fixate in the same way).  Anyway, here is a selection of flash mob antics from YouTube – ENJOY&#8230;</p>
<p>EUROVISION 2010 &#8211; takes a while to get going but stick with it (the heavy handed bouncers at the start are classic!) PS London flash mob contribution rubbish in this video &#8211; ho hum it just matches the TERRIBLE last place performance of the UK this year!:</p>
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<p>BEYONCE SINGLE LADIES (100 OF THEM!) &#8211; sound not great but brilliant dancing:</p>
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<p>A MEGA-MIX FROM BONDI BEACH &#8211; camp as hell amazingness:</p>
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<p>OPRAH AND THE BLACK-EYED PEAS:</p>
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		<title>Loved stuff: Su-Bo is just amazing</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 20:45:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have downloaded Susan Boyle’s new album.  It is stunning.  I am getting Streisand-like goose bumps just listening to it.  Wild Horses, her first single, makes me well up with tears every time I hear it.  Her voice is absolutely beautiful: totally, overwhelmingly stunning.  I know I am gushing but it is fabulous.  Apparently the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have downloaded Susan Boyle’s new album.  It is stunning.  I am getting Streisand-like goose bumps just listening to it.  Wild Horses, her first single, makes me well up with tears every time I hear it.  Her voice is absolutely beautiful: totally, overwhelmingly stunning.  I know I am gushing but it is fabulous. </p>
<p>Apparently the album is breaking records left, right and centre in terms of number of downloads, blah,blah,blah.  I am not surprised and wholeheartedly encourage you to get yourself a copy (or at least get one for your Mum for Christmas but load it up on your iTunes first). ;+)</p>
<p>Never has the saying about a book, its cover and judgement been so apt.  The stylists have really gone to town on her mind and she is looking much groomed.  I hope she stays her quirky slightly dishevelled self (great to see her with neat eyebrows though). </p>
<p>I want Mr Cowell to set up a Leona and Susan duet on the night of the X Factor final. </p>
<p>Actually do you know what, on second thoughts this might be unwise, I might end up hospitalised with emotional exhaustion!
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		<title>Loved stuff: My advice&#8230; get on and commit to &#8216;The One&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 21:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil crump</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now you may or may not know, but on the 29 August, six odd weeks ago, I married my boyfriend.  I am so pleased that I have done it.  Chad and I are officially partners in crime. There have been a duo of recurring questions that people have asked me: Question one (in the one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now you may or may not know, but on the 29 August, six odd weeks ago, I married my boyfriend.  I am so pleased that I have done it.  Chad and I are officially partners in crime.</p>
<p>There have been a duo of recurring questions that people have asked me:</p>
<p>Question one (in the one hour lead up to and after the ceremony): <em>Are you feeling / did you feel nervous? </em></p>
<p>Question two (from about two weeks after the ceremony): <em>Do you feel different?</em></p>
<p>So the answers to these&#8230;</p>
<p>In response to question one the answer is &#8216;no&#8217; &#8211; I&#8217;d never felt so serene and content in my life.</p>
<p>The response to question two is &#8216;yes&#8217; and also &#8216;no&#8217; &#8211; let me explain myself &#8211; yes I do feel different, but not different different &#8211; just a more intense range of emotions than before: more secure, happier, more loved, more committed, closer, just more of a range of positve feelings that started in the first few days of meeting my (now) husband.</p>
<p>In the finale of my official wedding speech I talked about one of my favourite characters from one of my favourite TV shows of all time: Charlotte from <em>Sex in the City</em>.  I loved her character &#8211; she always believed that there was &#8216;The One&#8217; and she never lost the faith, despite the disappointment, despite kissing many frogs that never morphed into the prince. </p>
<p>As I mentioned in front of my friends and family (having consumed a suitable volume of bubbles) &#8211; I&#8217;ve &#8216;kissed&#8217; many (many, many) frogs and had the most disastrous and toxic six and a half year relationship (that a therapist [I need a whole separate post on my belief in the power of talking to a professional] decided was with a narcissistic psychopath).  But I never lost my faith, like the fictional Charlotte, that &#8216;The One&#8217; is out there.</p>
<p>My toast at the end of my speech was: &#8216;To Chad, to my amazing Chad, my The One&#8217;.</p>
<p>He is just that, and I am going to work really hard to make sure of it.</p>
<p>I am sorry that this post might come across as &#8216;smug married&#8217; but I don&#8217;t apologise and I don&#8217;t care if I sound preachy. </p>
<p>So many of the people I know don&#8217;t throw themselves into a relationship &#8211; they hold back, play games and quite frankly waste time.  You know if the one you are with is a keeper or a stinker who needs to be binned. </p>
<p>If your partner is your best mate (who you love doing intimate stuff with) then just go for it.
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